Hurdles

Hurdles in the race. Do they stop us from getting to the final?

Is love a running game, are we always trying to catch up with our friends in this race? Do we always panic when their are hurdles?

Well, Iv'e considered this theory because participating in a relationship you realise talking out problems, realising how big or small they are we cannot ever avoid them. We carry our problems with us everywhere we go.( Prequoted) Do we just go out with the same person over and over again? 

Today I have come to a realisation, since the beginning of mankind we were born to fend ourselves. We will be born alone and we will die alone. Sad. Yet, people merely are afraid of it. We are scared to be alone with our own thoughts and feelings so inevatibly we run away from it. We latch onto other people, we mimick each other. It's why societies values are so predictable, do we all REALLY have the same opinion on a film, do we all enjoy the same things? Even in our own minds we say , sure i'm different to everyone else. We show it on the outside with our appearances ever changing, but isn't this just a shallow attempt to prove society wrong. All we can really do is accept it and learn to love each other but more, much more than that love ourselves.

Is humanity mimickery? Did eve follow adam around picking the same fruit, sleeping at the same time, talking about the same things. Sure they did, thats why we have relationships girl and boy. Because we came as one but end in twosomes. This is where the argumentative relationship comes into it, because our different opinions come into it...eventually we break up sure that we will find someone more 'perfect' who agrees with us. My idea is that this will never happen! So are we just seeing the same person over and over again? With a different name.

This is why the same type of girl goes for 'the bad guys, the wrong guys for them' continuously. Why the guys want to settle down at some time in their lives.

We look for perfection, us girls look for mr right.

But if we can accept that we will always be the same, humanity will never change its contradictive way.. we can all look for mr right now.

Whether the 'now' fades away, we will never know.